# The Pull Request

**URL:** <https://forum.devtalk.com/t/the-pull-request/3610>\
**Category:** General Dev Chat\
**Tags:** discussion\
**Created:** [31 October 2020 10:54 UTC](https://forum.devtalk.com/t/the-pull-request/3610 "2020-10-31T10:54:16Z")\
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**Author:** ![AstonJ](https://forum.devtalk.com/user_avatar/forum.devtalk.com/astonj/32/7_2.png) [@AstonJ](https://forum.devtalk.com/u/AstonJ)\
**Post date:** [31 October 2020 19:06 UTC](https://forum.devtalk.com/t/the-pull-request/3610/3 "2020-10-31T19:06:36Z")

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> [@finner](#):
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> - How do you feel emotionally when someone suggests changes?

I would try not to take anything personally (so long as the feedback wasn’t rude). Just keep in mind that often personal taste, direction and experience are factors, and if a change is suggested it just means they are looking for something different, which may be based on their taste or experience.

> [@finner](#):
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> - How do you feel emotionally when you suggest changes?

For people suggesting changes I would say please just be kind 😊

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